Home Educator's Family TimesNumber 68 • June 2005

Reading Tips for Parents
Shirley Minster

What can a parent do to keep a child’s reading skills sharp so that they can read and comprehend better? The following tips will help family relationships deepen as you discuss what your children are reading and in so doing, discover their perceptions as they share their ideas. Exciting adventures await you as you embark on this learning trip together.

Read together at least three times a week. If you’re not sure what books are appropriate, ask your librarian and friends. Not-too-scary mysteries, adventure stories, biographies, and poetry are possibilities. Don’t forget missionary stories, either. Many a child has been thrilled to read of the bravery and love missionaries exhibited as they followed God. You never know when you are planting seeds that bear His fruit in good season.

-Have your child read to you from books and magazines of interest to him. Nothing is more rewarding for a parent than to have little Jimmy come running up and say, “Listen to this, Mom!” So make sure good reading material is readily available. Books with limericks and jokes are great, especially for the reluctant reader, because of the brevity and humor. Be forewarned: you may get tired hearing, “Just listen to one more, Dad,” but it’s a small price to pay when you hear the excitement in your child’s voice.

Review the alphabet with young children. Sing it and make it peppy. Write it on the sand at the beach, on paper at home, and on the car windows on rainy day travels. Play car games such as finding words that start with each letter and go in alphabetical order (a-Atlantic, b-Brunswick, c-Civic Center, etc.). Practice alphabetical order by asking which word on a specific sign would come first.

Make a weekly trek to your local library. Ask for a tour and go with your children. You’ll be surprise at all the new high-tech advancements. Try out the computer to search for books. Explore the shelves together and then let the children hunt for their own treasures. Their excitement at their finds will be infectious.

Visit bookstores that sell used books. The older and more decrepit a building, the better. It’s fun to go hunting up and down dusty aisles looking for new literary treasures. Encourage your children to purchase their own books and to start their own personal libraries. As you see what books each purchases, you’ll get ideas for birthdays gifts. When you get home, embark on a family project of making simple bookshelves from boards and cement blocks. If you’re not the building type, purchase a bookcase dedicated to each one’s personal library. Consider having brass plates made with each child’s name engraved. Practice those alphabetical skills by having them put the authors in order. You might even start a recipe box with a separate card for each book, author, and copyright. (Hint: Let the children decorate them so no mix-ups occur.)

-Play games like Boggle, Scrabble, and Bible Trivia. These help spelling and reading skills in a fun, less structured way. If your child has a difficult time with spelling, don’t use the timer. You could have partners, too. Keep a running tally instead of determining the winner at the end of one day’s game. By turning it into a tournament, losing becomes less painful.
(It doesn’t hurt for the children to tally the scores, either!)

-Spend some time at the magazine section in a local bookstore, being careful to stay away from suggestive materials that are also on the shelves. See who can find the most offbeat, interesting magazine. Look for topics as diverse as foreign travel, bee-keeping, monster truck rallies, archeology, and cuisines. Compare the many different game magazines, too. Wordfinds, connect the dots, crossword puzzles, and mazes are good companions on rainy days.

-Take field trips to add pizazz to your normal routine. When children are school-age, most parents forget that they should still take field trips with their children. Visit a printer, a book bindery, the Portland Press Herald, and small-town newspaper offices, but make sure to call ahead for schedules. The Maine State Museum in Augusta has many interesting books and articles, too.

Children learn best by example. When did they last see you sitting quietly reading a book or magazine, laughing while you read a humorous story, or talking excitedly about a ‘good read’? By taking the time to do this, you will encourage your children to follow suit.


About the author:
Shirley is the founder of Home Education & Family Services and Royal Academy which provide unique services to families who have chosen to educate their own children. Home Education & Family Services, sponsors of the New England Homeschool & Family Learning Conference, works annually with hundreds of families offering a wide variety of services and helping parents custom design learning programs to fit their children’s learning profiles and the family’s lifestyles. Shirley will lead workshops at the New England Conference, July 14, 14.
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