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Homeschooling for Safety
 By Barbara Frank
 
This morning, my jaw dropped when I heard radio host Dennis Miller repeatedly tell a caller who was upset about the horrendous school shootings in Connecticut that he should consider pulling his young daughter out of school and homeschooling her. Miller was clearly serious.

I’m not used to hearing homeschooling being recommended by people like Dennis Miller, but in the wake of the awful event at Sandy Hook, I can see where shaken parents all over the country are looking at their children and thinking, “How can I protect them?” when dropping them off at school each day no longer looks like a safe thing to do.
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The Tenth Intelligence by David H. Albert

That best portion of a good man's life,
His little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and of love. William Wordsworth,
~from "Lines written a few miles above Tintern Abbey"

I have on occasion wondered what it might have been like to go through life as a Robin.

I never had the opportunity to find out. In the second month of the first grade at P.S. 131, my public elementary school in New York City, we were separated into “Bluebirds and Robins”. (I have since discovered that in other schools there were also “Sparrows”, who were “Special Ed” children before Special Ed was invented, those destined to ride “the short bus.”*) I don’t remember any test being involved; we were just told we were either Robins or Bluebirds and that was that. Read Full Article...

Americans Warned: Homeschoolers Stripped of Rights

BERLIN -- Recently, U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder has said that homeschooling is not a parent's right. It is a statement some are saying should frighten American parents.

Nations like Germany and Sweden show that when governments take away homeschooling rights, it's a slippery slope to no parental rights. 

America the Refuge or Not

The Romeike family came to the United States from Germany five years ago hoping to find refuge. They wanted to homeschool their children in freedom and a federal judge granted them asylum.
But now the Obama administration has been trying to deport them, arguing that homeschooling is not a right. The case is currently before a federal appeals court.
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Addicted to Experts by Linda Dobson

Book Excerpt from The Art of Education

"We have a right," our forefathers cried once upon a time, “to think for ourselves." We have surrendered that right, not to a dictatorial, hostile monarchy overseas, but to our own government's institutions. And oh, the tangled web these institutions have woven.

A web, because their "experts" pervade every area of our lives today. Tangled, because they work hand-in-hand. Woven, because they get closer to marriage every day we remain asleep.

It all begins in school, folks. By law, it is required that you attend. (That you learn is not required, that school be the best place for you to learn is not required, just that you attend.) Read Full Article...

A Child’s Place is in the Kitchen; How Cooking Advances Learning

by Laura Grace Weldon

It’s easier to cook when our kids aren’t in the way. Besides, bubbling pots and sharp knives are hardly child friendly. But there are many reasons why our children belong in the kitchen. One is the way their learning advances as they stir, chop and converse with us. What may seem like average culinary tasks are actually rich educational projects for them.

Yes, it takes longer when Mason snips cilantro, Sophie reads the recipe aloud and Mia mixes. A lot longer. And you’ve got places to go, probably places to take your darling children like T-ball practice or that great science program at the museum. That’s how we parent our kids these days — we eat and run to keep up with our busy child-centered lives. But research shows that exactly the sort of learning that happens during hands-on,purposeful experiences (like cooking together) is highly valuable. There’s a lot less research showing that our beloved children benefit from rushing to adult run programs.
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From Previous Issues

Stretch Like Elastigirl!
(The marvel of the homeschool mother!)

By Barbara Frank

In the movie “The Incredibles,” a pair of retired superheroes marry, have a
family and settle down…or so they think, because before long they’re yanked out
of retirement to save the world from an evil genius.
How astute of the movie’s creator to make the character of the mother
someone who can change shape in order to help her children! Being “elastic” is a
necessity for all moms; adapting ourselves to the needs of our families is a
regular event for us. And never is this truer than in the case of homeschooling
moms, because we’re faced with so many changing situations as we work with our
families. For instance: [10]Read Article
http://www.homeeducator.com/familytimes/2013/february2013/frank-stretch.html

What Kids Learn From Chores
(or More Proof That Suffering Builds Character)
By: Dr. James G. Wellborn

Like so many parental expectations and requirements, getting your kid in the
habit of doing chores will help prepare them for the real world (if you can ever
get them to move out).

Here are some of the benefits kids derive from assigned chores.
• Responsibility (or “I’m not your maid.”)  When you make a mess YOU are
obligated to clean it up.  The most straightforward reason your kid needs to do
chores is to drive the point home that he is responsible for his actions in the
world (and the messes he makes).
• Personal Obligation (or “You helped create this mess now get up and help clean
it up!”)  When you live with other people, you’re obliged to contribute to the
general upkeep of common living areas.  Chores help your kid learn to pull her
own weight when it comes to keeping shared spaces clean (so she doesn’t end up
moving back home because even her friends consider her a slob). [11]Read
Article... 
 http://www.homeeducator.com/familytimes/2013/february2013/wellborn-chores.html

Much Too Early by David Elkind

(Editor's Note: Children must be protected from early institutionalization - and
also from very formal early educational methods. They DO NOT need to be herded
into classrooms - Jane Boswell)

Children must master the language of things before they master the language of
words.”—Friedrich Froebel, Pedagogics of the Kindergarten, 1895

In one sentence, Froebel, father of the kindergarten, expressed the essence
of early-childhood education. Children are not born knowing the difference
between red and green, sweet and sour, rough and smooth, cold and hot, or any
number of physical sensations. The natural world is the infant’s and young
child’s first curriculum, and it can only be learned by direct interaction with
things. There is no way a young child can learn the difference between sweet and
sour, rough and smooth, hot and cold without tasting, touching, or feeling
something. Learning about the world of things, and their various properties, is
a time-consuming and intense process that cannot be hurried.
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http://www.homeeducator.com/familytimes/2013/february2013/Elkind-tooearly.html

Early Childhood Education: The Case Against Direct Instruction of Academic Skills By Alfie Kohn

"The earlier [that schools try] to inculcate so-called 'academic' skills, the
deeper the damage and the more permanent the 'achievement' gap."
-- Deborah Meier

Some of the most ambitious and expensive educational evaluations conducted in
this country have looked at programs growing out of Head Start – that is,
programs begun in the 1960s to help disadvantaged young children.  One of those
efforts, known as Follow Through, was originally intended to provide support for
children after they left preschool.  Threatened by the Nixon Administration with
a loss of funding, Follow Through was hastily reinvented as an experiment
involving more than a dozen different models of instruction at more than a
hundred sites around the country.  Among the results of that comparison was the
finding that some programs emphasizing basic skills – in particular, a model
known as Direct Instruction, in which teachers read from a prepared script in
the classroom, drilling young children on basic skills in a highly controlled,
even militaristic fashion, and offering reinforcement when children produce the
correct responses – appeared to produce the best results.  Proponents of this
kind of teaching have trumpeted this finding ever since as a vindication of
their model. Read Article ...
http://www.homeeducator.com/familytimes/2013/february2013/Kohn-early.html


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Taking Care of the Homeschooling Mother (or Father)
by Amanda Bennett

We hug them, love them, teach them, and share with them - wiping away tears, assuring them that monsters are not in the closet or under the bed, even helping them through algebra. We are our children's caretakers and we care for them so deeply and completely that we sometimes forget to care for ourselves. If we get too stretched out and burned out, we aren't as effective at taking care of others very well.

One of the things that I learned through my early years of homeschooling and being a full time mom was that I had to take care of MOM first. One of the best analogies for this is the statement that is made when you are going through the safety talk before takeoff on an airplane - when the oxygen masks drop in an emergency, the adult should put their mask on first, then assist the child with theirs. We can't help them if we are incapacitated - that's my interpretation. And this holds true in all that we do, particularly when it comes to parental well-being and the individual feeling of fulfillment. Read article...

Teens: Who They Really Are by Alison McKee

It seems to me that the overall opinion about teenagers is that they are to be dreaded and endured. I've come across this attitude more than once. As a parent, I have to admit that I have had my share of moments of dread. To be fair, though, I also have to admit that bad moments are not all there is to parenting teens.

Most of the time our teens are simply normal everyday kids. They have their sore spots and they have their moments of stardom, but the rest of the time they are quite unremarkable. When we lose sight of this fact, we tend to focus our attention on the extremes, thus leaving teens feeling as though they are only worthy of our recognition when they are either shining or having a rough time. I've lived with teens long enough to know that this is a trap that is easy to fall into. Read article...

Shedding the Adult Agenda by Barbara Frank

I’ve always admired unschoolers for their relaxed approach to learning. Yet while my own style of homeschooling has become much more relaxed over the years, I will never be called an unschooler because I am incapable of being one. It is simply not in my personality.

Do the math: I’m a first-born (yes, there are Kevin Leman books on my shelves), public-schooled, Missouri Synod Lutheran (Lutherans live for and by their routines), child of a career military man. Let’s face it, I was never meant to be an unschooler. Read article...

Let's Write! Writing Prose With Flow

National Writing Institute (by Dave Marks)

The following exercise is designed to teach in about five days, students who are in grades six through ninth, that: 1) ideas in sentences can be connected; 2) ideas can flow from one sentence to the next; and 3) they can make ideas in their writing flow from one bit of information to the next one.

This exercise speaks directly to the student and you shouldn’t have to read it or interpret it to your children. Give it to them and tell them that everything that they might need to do it is contained within it. Don’t help them with it until they get stuck. Read article...

Homeschooling and the All Important Family
by Rachel Gathercole

The homeschooling movement is absolutely exploding with growth. Since 2000, the homeschooling population has been growing at the astounding rate of at least 10 to 20 percent per year. Literally millions of families are homeschooling in the United States alone. What is it that draws so many people to this trend? Through all the talking and listening I have done with hundreds of diverse homeschoolers across the country, one common theme has emerged as the most important advantage to homeschoolers: family unity. This element of homeschooling is of the utmost importance to homeschoolers, who consider it the cornerstone of (and the greatest boon to) their children’s social development. Read article...


"Homeschool Split-Personality Disorder" ... A Recovery Program by Diane Flynn Keith

Do you vacillate between child-led, developmentally appropriate, interest-initiated unschooling on one hand, and traditional, structured, academic-based education on the other? These mood-altering swings in methodology creep up unexpectedly on homeschooling parents and are often exacerbated by events beyond their control. I know. I am recovering from homeschool split-personality disorder.
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